Author: Jelena

  • Why do we feel so awful in the beginning of a relationship?

    Magic of a new relationship – or is it? Depending on your attachment style, but if you are the anxious one, you are definitely screwed. Why do we ( or at least some of us) feel the crushing weight of a new relationship as a wrecking ball that is punching our guts. Shouldn’t it be…

  • Always Dating the same Guy?

    Many people are subjected to the tragedy of dating the same person over and over again – and yes it is a tragedy, not my drama-ass exaggerating, even though I’m very dramatic.  As my therapist would say, it must be rooted in a pattern from our childhood. Especially if the encounter evokes strong feelings and…